Acceptance.

Have you ever feel like you are back to square one where you have been working on living with a positive mindset for years and because of one guy, everything is scattered. Everything that you had practiced just vanished. You become weak, vulnerable, sad and all the negative feelings flushed into you. I did, for …

2021 Has Taught Me…

Year 2020 and 2021 more likely the same due to the world pandemic that is happening. In fact, we are adapting to a new norm of life because of it. As for me, year 2021 has taught me a lot about love and life. We don't just need communication to work in a relationship, we …

How Well You Handle Criticism?

Criticism is an act of giving opinion or judgement about the good or bad qualities of something or someone which can cause harm as well as good things. How well do you handle criticism? It is crucial for us to learn how to handle criticism. I truly believe that one's insecurity is the key to …

Rants.

Hey there. It's been a while since my last update. As I was typing today's post, I am currently dyeing my hair. DIY by the way. A thought just swing by as I'm waiting to rinse off the chemicals on my hair. In Malaysia, we hit a second wave of pandemic, another CMCO or in …

I’m Not Okay.

The occurrence that I have been trying to improve or fixed on myself has come. It is here. The time where I self-doubt, overthinking, full with low self-esteem, shut people out and etc. The negative vibes has taken all of me until today that I pull myself together with half awake brain to write something …

Self-Isolation

There are times when I just want to run away from life or reality. Moments where I just want to be alone and to have someone whom I can talk too, emotionally. I have been feeling shit these past few days and right now - I am recovering. Recovering from the unknown feelings and heartache. …

How to Heal Emotional Devastation with Self-love?

It's been long since my last post. To be honest, I was not inspired at all. It's like I was back to square one until last night's Supermoon. Scorpio full moon energy got me deeply sensitive and emotional. Letting go of the things that are holding you back from transforming into the next stage of …

Why Are We Upset?

All of us naturally feel upset at something or someone, but why? We are upset when a situation does not goes into our ways. Which lead us back to my previous post about expectation. How often do you get upset or frustrated when someone does something that you loathe? I am using this three question …

Act Without Expectation.

For the past years, I have been living with expectation. Expectation that others would appreciate you, when you show them appreciation. Expectation of being there for others and they would do the same back. Well, my expectation turned to disappointment most of the time. In the end I only trust myself that I, at some …

Be Happy, Always.

I know that some of my circle of friend does not know who Xandria Ooi is, but I know since she is hosting for Ntv7's Life Session. I was young back then but I was interested to watch that lifestyle talk show she hosted. To think back, I was really into lifestyle since younger age. …